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We often push ourselves to exhaustion before allowing rest, constantly saying "just one more thing." But what if we treated our emotional wellness like a garden that needs regular care? Start by tuning into your needs without judgment, create small moments for self-care, and remember that wellness should feel like an exciting journey, not another task on your to-do list.
Reconnecting with your authentic self after years of self-suppression can feel both awkward and comforting - much like reuniting with a childhood friend after decades apart. This delicate journey involves rediscovering parts of yourself that were hidden away for protection, while experiencing the bittersweet mix of familiarity and strangeness that comes with meeting an old friend who has grown and changed over time.
When it comes to apologies and accountability, it's not just about saying "sorry" - it's about acknowledging the impact of our actions. Understanding the difference between a genuine apology with accountability versus an excuse can transform how we handle conflicts and build stronger relationships. Let's explore how to apologize effectively while validating others' experiences.
This comprehensive guide walks readers through the essential steps of finding a couples therapist that matches their unique needs. The post details seven key areas to consider: determining needs, seeking qualified professionals, research and verification, compatibility factors, important questions to ask, trusting instincts, and evaluating progress. It emphasizes the importance of both partners being involved in the selection process and viewing therapy as an investment in the relationship's future.
Perfectionists think control will keep them safe from shame. But more often than not, it will keep all the aspects that make life exciting, memorable, and worth living at bay. You, me, and all of us are imperfectly perfect.
“I wrote this personal piece as a way to process my outrage and, ultimately, help myself stay grounded in love and solidarity with my community. I hope reading it can be as therapeutic as it was to write." -SG
