It may not solve life’s troubles, but it can soften them. But don't be fooled by its gentleness, self-love is hardcore.

Please be advised this piece covers sensitive material related to self-harm.

Perfectionists think control will keep them safe from shame. But more often than not, it will keep all the aspects that make life exciting, memorable, and worth living at bay. You, me, and all of us are imperfectly perfect.