Reconnecting with your authentic self after years of self-suppression can feel both awkward and comforting - much like reuniting with a childhood friend after decades apart. This delicate journey involves rediscovering parts of yourself that were hidden away for protection, while experiencing the bittersweet mix of familiarity and strangeness that comes with meeting an old friend who has grown and changed over time.

Perfectionists think control will keep them safe from shame. But more often than not, it will keep all the aspects that make life exciting, memorable, and worth living at bay. You, me, and all of us are imperfectly perfect.